Everyday Champion: The Happy Chappo

Hello, you! When I started blogging, I wanted to try to use my space to highlight the amazing, everyday people who are doing wonderful and positive things. This week, I want to introduce you to The Happy Chappo. The Happy Chappo is a small business that produces unique and funky art that encourages people to be themselves – Steven (The Original Chappo) is non-binary and their work shines with the message ‘it’s cool to be different’! Their instagram is a zesty place whilst also being filled with honest posts about difficulties with mental and physical health. Steven inspires me on a regular basis and deserves more recognition – I wanted to introduce you to them so they can shine some light onto your life too! Here’s what they had to say… ✦ Basic Chappo info:  Hello, my name is Steven! I’m a Non-Binary illustrator living in the countryside in West Yorkshire. I have 4 cats and one of them is named after my favourite biscuit (Figgs).   Origins of The Happy Chappo: My nanna used to buy me those big, colouring in cards where all the black was made of felt – you  couldn’t go outside the lines and you… View Post

Back and Blogging Again

Hello, you! It really has been a while – the laughable thing is, I think I actually started my last post in January 2019 saying that, so ‘while’ might be a bit of an understatement for my two year absence. Don’t put on a brave face, I know you’ve been lost without me… BUT I’M BACK AND BLOGGING AGAIN! It’s hard to know where to start and how to talk about everything that’s gone on, especially given the horrendous things we’ve all had to endure over the past year or so with COVID. No number of words I could write would do justice to everyone’s suffering and my heart truly goes out to everyone who has struggled with the global crisis. I’m not even going to try and address how tragic it’s been, I think we’ve all exhausted ourselves reading about it and I can’t even begin to fathom what some people have been through. I wanted to acknowledge this before I proceed to ramble on about myself and my life for the next few hundred words… But please know, my thoughts are with all of you, whether you’ve suffered massive losses or whether you’ve just missed your coffee trips… View Post

Happy Notes

Hello, you!   Hope you’re well, please do excuse my month long absence – clearly my ‘twice weekly’ posting schedule is just not something I roll with, ALAS, here I am – surprise! Over the last month, I have developed the habit of writing happy notes and leaving them in places, like books, for people to find. If you don’t know what a happy note is, essentially all it is is a bit of paper/post-it note/you name it, with a positive message written on it. I left these notes around a couple of times when I was sixteen but then the misery of life got the better of me and there was no more joy to spread, STOP YOUR TEARS, I’M KIDDING – I don’t know why I stopped doing it, to be honest, so here I am, back at it again, aged 21.   You may have seen these on Instagram   I regularly get into the habit of collecting things for a ‘creative project’… Sometimes I won’t even have a project, I’ll just see something and think ‘this could be so cool for something one day’ – I blame my mum and her many creative ventures. Just over… View Post

Failures and Faux Pas

Hello, you!   I turned 21 a few weeks ago – you probably know this if you’re either in my life personally or follow me on Instagram because I have NOT STOPPED banging on about it. I do apologise, but I’m big on celebrating! I’m sure the photo below shows how much I DO NOT SHY AWAY from birthdays. Lots of my friends at uni thought this was a serious look, as in I actually went out thinking ‘hell yeah, I’m gonna be fighting off the lads tonight – WATCH OUT, RYAN’ – but clearly, I was (as I regularly do) taking the piss out of myself.     As I’ve reached the final, big milestone birthday before 30, I thought it would be fun to share some of my adult failures with you. These are some of the small (and sometimes hugely embarrassing) faux pas I’ve made since I turned 18… That is, I was definitely old enough to know better. I’d like to add a disclaimer now, to try and retain at least SOME dignity, and say that these are not an accurate representation of my intelligence (I hope), and with that, AWAY WE GO!   I used… View Post

A Daily Dose of Perspective

Hello, you!   At the minute, I’m really struggling with post-traumatic stress from my surgeries and other things that have happened to me over the past few years. One of the things I’m struggling most with is how agitated I am, if I get even slightly bored, it’s like I’m taken over by ‘the rage’ so I’m trying to keep my mind busy. Normally, while I’m driving I whack on some music and have a good drive, singing along and probably looking like a bit of a tit to other drivers passing by. The other night though, I was too hypersensitive to listen to music (thanks, Asperger’s) so decided to listen to a podcast on the way over to my boyfriend’s house. I feel I must mention that podcasts make me feel very cultured and intellectual, making productive use of my drive time to learn something – check me. 5 points to Sophie. The drive to Ryan’s is pretty short so I clicked on the shortest one I could find and it was a TED Talk by Benjamin Grant called ‘What it Feels Like to See Earth From Space’ – I love stuff like this. I’ve always had this thing… View Post